This post aims to show that everybody who doesn’t know what they truly want to do with their life already got the answer and signs for that, just unrecognized yet. Sometimes we can’t see the forest because of all the trees.
The love of a mother towards her child is definitely something that nobody would negate, but can you see it, when there is no action?
Everybody got “inner” or “unseen” reasons which drive their actions.
Once you know yours clearly, it is way easier to create a life around all of the things you want and enjoy being, doing or having in your life.
Quite a bunch of people have difficulties with knowing what they truly want in life.
Three reasons for not knowing what you want.
The agony of choice.
On the one hand, this may seem irrational because there is nowadays so much one can choose to do. But on the other hand, this so much is for some simply the agony of choice.
The bombardment of impressions and distractions.
Another reason is the bombardment of impressions and distractions that prevent us from taking our time to relax and feel into our guts when asking ourselves, as if we were a stranger who we like to get to know better, what truly excites us positively and makes us happy and fulfilled.
Not daring to freely dream big.
Nearly everybody has some notions or ideas of what would be an amazing life for them. But due to not believing that their big goals are achievable for them or way too difficult, this ignorant lack of belief, in most cases, terminates any possibility to think, grow and develop into the desired lifestyle.
But this doesn’t need to be tricky.
What you can do to get it.
A lot of people don’t focus on all the positive traits, aspects and things they already possess. Like their
- strengths.
- talents.
- what they love doing.
- what they’re good or great at.
- what they know most about.
You can start taking daily 15 minutes for thinking about what you could and would ideally do in your life.
By collecting all ideas when thinking about it, your subconscious mind starts to work for you too and deliver it’s results to your conscious mind once it got ideas and conclusions.
When you know what you’re good, great or talented in, and when it is also fun for you most of the time or gives you meaning, ideally all of it together, you can start to think about the following things:
- What kind of service(s) could you create and offer out of it?
- What kind of product(s) could you create out of it?
- For what kind of people?
- What kind of problems do you solve for them or what kind of needs or desires of them do you fulfill?
You could also look for and prepare for a job position that needs the personal strengths and talents of you and gives you even joy and meaning.
The relationship towards working and what is enough for you.
A lot of people are happy when they get enough income to fulfill their expenses and when their job is over. They see working rather as a drag than a way to be fulfilled. That’s ok, not every job is awesome. Not everybody has the same idea of living standard. That’s totally ok too.
Some years.
But usually, everybody has got some years in order to find a more joyful and fulfilling job or create ways of income so one doesn’t need to go on all years working in something that one doesn’t enjoy at all.
Because doing for many years an activity that doesn’t raise your vibrations but lowers them rather, is not healthy for your mind, soul, and body.
Disconnection of their inner will because of too many compromises.
A lot of people also don’t go for what they truly want because of having made so many compromises that they lost the connection to their inner will. Their inner will was too often ignored that it said at one point:
“You know what? I withold the good and interesting stuff now for me. You’re not listening and doing it anyway.”
Asking yourself daily and hourly if what you do is truly something that you want helps to raise your consciousness and clarity about it. In some cases, when you actually notice that you don’t like or want to do it, you can start to stop doing it, in some cases, it would be too harsh. It is up to your estimation and choice.
So everybody is equipped with interests, passions, talents, and strengths.
There is a reason why many successful and wise people say that you should follow the pull of what interests and excites you. I obviously don’t mean in this case the other sex but an endeavor or activity that interests and excites you and is even fun or fulfilling to go for or practice.
You can see your personal strengths, talents, passions, and interests as road signs to a fulfilled and successful life.
People who haven’t implemented all or most of their strengths, talents, passions, and interests in their job can have a hard time.
People who build their life around some or all of their interests, passions and their strengths and talents are living usually a lot more fulfilled, happy and successful. Because they have implemented what makes them happy, excites them, fulfills them and what they’re good or great at into their (daily) life.
The universe meant it well by equipping us already with curiosity, passions, interests, strengths, talents, and dreams.
So we can feel curious, excited, passionate, good, fulfilled, happy, confident and successful.
If we do implement them enough into our personal life.
Everybody has got a talent, strength or knack to a degree that most people around don’t. So everybody has something to offer to others who lack that degree of knowledge, ability or skill and need it for a reason.
Again:
- What are you good or great at that most people you have met and around you aren’t?
- What is easier for you than for most other people?
- When do you experience moments of flow? When does time run faster without recognizing it?
- What are the top 5 of the fields or activities you feel most confident in or with?
Growth is the process of nature. Everything grows from the inside to the outside. When things grow, they can also flourish.
- So what do you like to flourish within you and your life?
- What kind of ability or abilities would you like to learn till excellence?
- In which field or topic would you like to be or are already an expert? Why?
- What could you do and earn with this skill or know-how?
Your talents, strengths, passions, and interests are usually more than enough for creating a fulfilling, successful, prosperous and happy life.
The missing parts are often:
- the lack of creativity to create a service or product out of these things.
- the lack of self-confidence and belief in oneself and the service or product.
- the lack of knowing how to raise all that included change and growth at the same time.
- the difficulty of knowing how to cut a big dream into little doable pieces.
Having a smart and effective note- and planning book is highly recommendable to ignite your changes and growth.
Enjoy the discovery of your treasures and the journey of living the way you truly want.
