Success in our life has always to do something with us, our beliefs and actions amongst more. No question about that. But to get to the sure source of personal success in our life, we are better off with making the success of our clients, customers, employees, colleagues or team-members and services or products more important than our personal success.
The natural law that to you returns what you have given out applies here. The energy of your focus and efforts are around the success of your clients or customers, employees, colleagues or team-members, services or products and so that is what you give or send out.
The more of use for
- success,
- satisfaction,
- fulfilment or
something else you are for your clients or customers, employees, colleagues or team-members and services or products, the greater the natural return in forms of a higher quality or more of:
- self-esteem and general joy
- profits,
- new job offers or opportunities and responsibilities
- income,
- bonuses,
- partnerships,
- other results due to the just mentioned forms.
“The best marketing strategy ever?
CARE.”
Gary Vaynerchuk
It is also heathy for the mind and soul when we don´t overthink ourselves or our lives or seemingly important lacks of something but rather focus on being a positive help and inspiration for others and ourselves.
To make the commitment of being of service to others by offering or doing what we choose to, we start a relationship and commitment with a certain duty and feeling of responsibility in front of the people we commit to be of service to. This is powerful when we are faced with a tendency for procrastination or lack of clarity of purpose or drive or even giving up.
“Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ´What´s in it for me?´”
Brian Tracy
One thing to always keep in mind:
It is always advisable to ask if advise is welcome before you give it.
Our self-image
Nevertheless, we also have to daily cultivate the successful self-image that contains the successful actions, traits and fitting beliefs for our desired success or way of being and living.
But the focus of the success of others makes you faster more successful on the marketplace, since you can´t or shouldn´t be your only client or customer.
Enjoy the growth of your success, whatever it is for you and the favoured ones.
“The rare individuals who unselfishly try to serve others have an enormous advantage – they have little competition.”
Andrew Carnegie
